Brian Michael Everest passed away at Lady Minto Hospital on Salt Spring Island on January 12, 2009. He was 45 years old. Brian was diagnosed with acute leukemia in August 2008. He lived his illness with characteristic courage and grace, both of which deepened as he journeyed.
Brian was born on February 6, 1963, in Edmonton, Alberta. He was a master woodworker, cabinet maker and carpenter. He loved his work and he left the world with an incredible amount of beauty and soul. Those he worked with were treasured friends, colleagues, and mentors. So important to him were Lake O’Hara Lodge in the Rockies, Cam Mathieson in Nelson, and Hans Hazenboom on Salt Spring Island.
Brian leaves, as gifts to the world, four children: Hannah, Coleman, Louis and Sef, all of whom share in his kindness and artistry, his intelligence and wit.
Brian’s own father Wayne died in 1991. However, he leaves a large family to miss and remember him: his mother Louise, his stepfather Jim, siblings Allan, Dwight, Wendy, Charlie and Terri-Lou, and all their families. He loved you all.
Extended family and friends formed an intricate, strong and glorious web around him, especially through his illness. Brian was so moved by expressions of love and support and he was, as we are, deeply deeply grateful.
Special notes of thanks go to hospice workers Rajani, Elvira, and Mark, and to Dr. Barclay and the entire, wonderful, Lady Minto staff. Lynn and Mike were his beloved family, fellow artists, and spiritual friends. Their support and connection have been pivotal.
A memorial celebration was held at the Salt Spring Centre of Yoga on January 16, 2009. Many thanks to the Centre community.
It has been an honour to walk in the world with Brian these past 23 years, and a supreme blessing to love and be loved by him.
-Joanne
My work is to carry this love
as a comfort for those who long for you
to go everywhere you’ve walked
and gaze at the pressed-down dirt.
-Rumi
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Dear Joanne and Family, i don't really know what drew me to this blog today, but im so glade it did. to see your posting helps me know that you are carrying on for yourself and your children. Many new adventures ahead with the wisdom,love and courage that surrounds you to help guide your course.
bless you. Tracey
Dear Joanne,
I posted a link to this blog the day Gary came by and asked me how to post pictures and I've come by regularly since. I grew to love Brian through the wonderful posts and all the beautiful comments of those who came to visit sharing precious memories.
I wish you all peace and love.
'Death is not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp because dawn has come'
Rabindranath Tagore
Dear Joanne,
My thoughts are with you every day. I've been reading thee pages and been very touched and moved by the grace and strength that you and Brian, and your friends and family, showed day after day. You have much to share and give and you are a beauty.
All my love,
Lorraine
Dear Joanne and family; I think of you and your youngsters every day, and am so touched by your strength and grace over these past months. Brian has left his earthly home but he is with you forever in your children and in your love. His teaching and wonderful spirit and humour are with you always in the challenges and joyful adventure of life. Bless you and yours, Aunt Bea
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